sometimes i wonder

sometimes i wonder if there will ever be a guy out there for me who gets feminism. sounds stupid, but it's so fucking important to me and it doesn't mean shit to any of the guys who have made their presence in my life known. even tj. i love the kid to death, but last night he told me that he talked to his ex about his possibly still having feelings for her and she said she still might have feelings for him, too. so you know what he did after that? he asked her how many people she had sex with after they broke up. after he told me he was going to and i told him not to. and then he got upset at me last night for telling him he crossed a line with her. he just doesn't get it. i dont know but lately i'm just not about anyone telling other people what to do or judging them for the decisions that they make. tj chalks it up to "wanting a girl who has standards" and yeah, i might be wary of dating a guy who goes through girl after girl, but if he really liked her that wouldn't matter. and i wouldnt want a guy who asked me how many people i'd slept with to help him decide whether he should date me or not. dan just came over so im ending this rant early, but i'll probably come back to it.