clarification: what I was talking about in the last post isn't casual sex, more like a short, casual but not "open" relationship. something that definitively has an end date (summer, unless I stay in Chicago, and then fall at the longest)but is still intellectually stimulating and physically involved (at least somewhat), and just gives me someone to talk to. believe me, I would not have let a guy feel me up on the third date if I thought he was a total dillhole. I'm talking a monogamous relationship-ish thing without the stresses of building a future/falling in love.
for some reason, I feel like casual relationship and casual sex are used interchangeably when they are very different. the way I see it: casual sex = no strings attached sex, not monogamous. sex only, nothing morw.
casual relationship = a casual dating type atmosphere, not bf/gf but monogamous. may or may not involve sex.
idk. this is hard to explain. hopefully you can meet him and see how we interact
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